Day 12 in the 30 Days of Biking, 30 Words, 30 Pictures series
Going back to Spokane for the Bike Swap means seeing lots and lots of friends, reminding me of the ways in which bicycling has brought me some new friends and added layers and richness to existing friendships.
Adults don’t have many playgrounds: Places in which to hang out with a stranger side by side, testing the same new experience or challenge, and starting to talk with each other or help each other out, thus easing into a new relationship. In grade school that swing set or tetherball encounter might launch a lifelong friendship simply through the shared activity that gives you time to talk and get to know each other. (Tetherball meanies need not apply.)
Bicycling gives you entree to all levels of activity and the chance to make friends. If you’re competitive the racing world provides structure and challenge. As soon as we moved to Seattle my husband started scouting race teams. If you’re new in any town with a bike club their calendar of rides gives you a way to find people who share your interest. During a major group riding event like the Jederman Gran Fondo in Cheney or the Ann Weatherill Classic in Walla Walla you might find your pace matches someone else’s and you talk for miles.
And then there’s adding bicycling into an existing friendship. When I started Bike to Work Spokane, my friend Betsy Lawrence (always good for yoga and coffee) got roped into helping with the wrap-up party our first year, 2008. From there she resolved to expand her recreational riding into bike commuting.
The rest, as they say, is history. One night she emailed me saying, “We need a women’s bike group to help other women like me who don’t think they can do it!” 20 minutes later she had created the Yahoo email account and a Facebook page for Belles and Baskets to help women get rolling in a supportive group with a heavy emphasis on treats.
She came with me on Bikespeditions through Spokane neighborhoods and I blogged about our search for treats, shopping, and bike-friendly streets with places to park our bicycles. Betsy gave an inspiring TEDx talk on the community of women bicycling that’s making the rounds; I was recently on the phone with a woman from Tacoma who said, “You need to see this great TEDx talk by a woman from Spokane!”
Betsy’s launch of Belles and Baskets introduced me to Wilma Flanagan and I recruited her for a seat on the Spokane Bicycle Advisory Board. The group introduced me to bike travel writer Katherine Widing, who ended up developing the Pedaling the Palouse tour and working on the San Juan Islands chapter for our new bike tour book, Cycling Sojourner Washington. So many great friends I can’t list them all here.
(Wait — I’m noticing that becoming my friend means being put to work on bicycling in some way. Don’t tell them and maybe they won’t notice.)
Back to today’s Bike Swap: I rode my bike there in the sunshine knowing I’d see lots of friends, and I wasn’t disappointed.
People stopped by our Washington Bikes booth and when I finally got to wander around a bit (4 hours into the day because it was crazy-busy) I couldn’t go two feet without seeing someone who has become a friend thanks to bicycling.
Tomorrow I’ll be on a Belles ride for another friend fix. The Spokane Bike Swap gets bigger every year, bringing together more and more people who may end up becoming friends through a common love of bicycling.
Other events and groups do the same all over the state. As one example, Velofemmes in Tacoma, a women’s informal bicycling group formed in 2013, reminds me of Belles and Baskets and I’ll be riding with them one of these days. I bet I’ll make some new friends.
Bikes: The playground for adults.
Related Reading and Viewing
- Belles & Baskets: Community on Two Wheels — Betsy Lawrence’s TEDx talk
- Belles and Baskets: The Beginning
- 30 Days of Biking, 30 Words, 30 Pictures: Day One–Fun
- 30 Days of Biking, Day Two–Flexibility
- 30 Days of Biking, Day Three: Color
- 30 Days of Biking, Day Four: Racing
- 30 Days of Biking, Day Five: Weather
- 30 Days of Biking, Day Six: Dates
- 30 Days of Biking, Day Seven: Left
- 30 Days of Biking, Day Eight: Leadership
- 30 Days of Biking, Day Nine: Outdoors
- 30 Days of Biking, Day 10: Snohomish
- 30 Days of Biking, Day 11: Home
- How has bicycling created and enriched your friendships as an adult?
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